Below
I've listed some theories I've developed over the years of investigating
haunted places. These will not and can not be applied to every
case of spirit activity, but they can be applied to most. There are exceptions
to every rule! These are not fact. That's why they're called
theories. So far, there is no "solid" theory for the existence of
ghosts. Since we can't sit one down & have a quiet little chat with them,
we may never know exactly why they stay behind. But for now, we have ideas,
thoughts & "wish lists" for the why. That's what
this page is for. All of you out there that have an idea that you feel could be
a good, serious reason for spirits to stay behind, send them to
me & I'll post them for everyone to read, think about & comment on. If you
have had an experience, & one of these theories helps to make sense of it,
please let me know.
Feel
free to comment on any of the theories below as you wish.
Magnetism and Energy
I
recently watched a show on the Discovery channel about levitation &
magnetism. The main subject was about human levitation, but it went into the
different ways that man have attempted and/or succeeded in levitating objects.
The show began with the old Indian rope trick in which a man could cause an
ordinary section of rope to rise up into the air & stiffen enough to allow
a small child to climb up to the top & then back down. Another segment
profiles a man who found a way to use magnetism to propel a train. This train
actually rides about 1 cm above a track & is propelled by electromagnets
rapidly turning on & off, thus throwing the train forward. The last segment
of the show is what really caught my attention. I watched as scientists used an
extraordinary large magnet that uses about 20 megawatts of power to magnetize a
2-inch area. Because of the amount of power they were using in such a small
area, they showed the viewer that almost anything could be magnetized. Among
the items they showed were glass beads, water, a strawberry, a spider & a
small frog. All of which were held in midair due to the magnetic field.
This is what got me thinking about ghosts, how they affect their environment
and most of all, & their ability to move objects. Now, it's the common
belief among ghost hunters that spirits can move objects up to about 5 pounds.
The old saying is that there's an exception to every rule. In this case, it's
accounts of beds shaking and/or levitating & other larger items that have
been reported to move of their own accord. These items weigh far more the 5
pounds & many are hard to move by us "living" beings!
My theory is that spirits may have more control over more powerful magnetic
fields then we originally thought. The large magnet I watched on this Discovery
show used 20 megawatts of power-that's enough to power a small town! Now think
about how all that power went into levitating very small objects that weighed
less then a single pound. Imagine the power one would need or the magnetic
field we would have to generate to move a bed or a couch or a chair. With the
reports I've read & the interviews I've done, I have the idea the ghosts
posses this kind of control, but for only a short time. Otherwise things might
be flying all over the place all the time! I'm guessing here, but I think that
such an effort taxes their strength to the point that they need rest, since we
do not see this sort of thing all of the time. The lack of witnessed
experiences (as in when someone leaves the room & finds things moved or
change when they return) may be due to timing. Let me explain what I mean.
Let's say a spirit wishes to move an object, it might need time to build up the
energy need to do the act, much like a track runner or swimmer needs to warm up
& stretch before they race. When the spirit builds up sufficient energy,
they can release a magnetic field, "pushing" an object. The time it
took to build up the energy may have been enough for a living person to get up
& leave the room, thus unable to witness the event.
The shaking of objects, such as the classic shaking bed, could be the result of
a spirit alternating the magnetic field, from positive to negative, or
repelling & attracting an object. The same event could also be from a rapid
pulsating of a magnetic field. By releasing short bursts of magnetic fields, a
spirit may be able to lift an object and drop it, over & over quickly. This
would simulate the bed "rocking" or "shaking" on it own.
The
levitation of an object could be caused by a constantly energized magnetic
field repelling the object enough to keep it up in the air for a short time. I
would imagine this would take a lot of energy on the part of the ghost. Just
moving an object would require a short burst, while holding an object steady
would obviously require more energy. This is much like when we move things. For
an example, let's use a regular bed. To move it, most of us need only to nudge
it with a leg & it'll move a bit. Give it a push & we can move it
around the room fairly easy. Now try to get under it & hold it off the
ground for a few minutes. It's not as easy. I would guess that the same would
hold true for our invisible friends.
Spirits and Children
I
think a spirit may become attached to a baby because the baby may be the only
one who can see it. A baby's, or small child's perception of a spirit may be
more finely tuned then that of an adult. With no "rules of life"
programmed into the baby...( such as there are no such things as ghosts,
UFOs...etc.)..the baby isn't limited to what is "supposed" to be
there. So who better for a spirit to take a liking to than the only one in the
house who acknowledges its existence, simply because they're to young to be
trained to ignore them. This may also be the reason why some ghosts become so
protective of children. The spirit is quite possibly protecting its only form of
interaction among the living.
Now,
I've heard stories where people have lost things & found them later in
different spots, but when there's a baby involved, I have usually read that the
child always "gets" toys & things when they couldn't have
possibly gotten themselves. Parents leaving car keys on a desk only to find
them in the crib with the baby. I've read that ghosts like to play pranks or
tricks on adults but never to a little one. Usually when ghosts play a prank on
an adult it's to get their attention & to let them know that they (the
ghost) are present. Maybe they don't do this with children because they can
already see them (ghost). In turn the ghosts' "need" to be noticed
isn't there. Little pranks may be a spirits way to let parents know that their
child needs attention.
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This was E-mailed to me a few days after the above theory was posted on the
website---
I told Kenny this story after reading what he posted on the page about ghosts
& children. Thought you may be able to use it - I promise it's 100% true;
actually my family would sort of like to forget it. They are uncomfortable with
the implications of the occurrence. Here goes: My mother has told me stories of
things that happened to me when I was a baby. Here's what she said: When I was
about 4 weeks old (certainly not old enough to do any climbing or jumping or
even picking my head up very well), she placed me in my crib for a nap. I had
no siblings at the time, & it was during the day so my dad was at work
& there was no one else in the house. As she was in the next room reading,
she decided after my long nap that it was time to wake me up. Upon entering the
room, she found me laying in the center of the room, fast asleep on the floor,
secure in my blanket. I had not made a thud (surely mom's radar ears would have
heard that right away) & not even a whimper. But sure enough there I was,
absolutely no explanation for how I had gotten there. We still suspect
something paranormal, but nobody likes to dwell on that subject. But there really
is no WAY I could have climbed out of my crib without a sound & ended up in
that position, & stayed asleep. Ok so ruling out the impossible (there was
no mobile or anything for me to climb in the crib, nobody broke in, I had no
ability to climb as a newborn, & my mom is not delirious), I do tend to
conclude that there was something "funny" going on that day, like it
may be possible that a ghost was having a little fun with me & more likely,
with my mom. I will say that I have always been sensitive with psychic
phenomena, though - not a prodigy, but I get certain feelings others sometimes
miss. Well, that's my story - of course I could not remember seeing anything,
but it is a little in keeping with the theory. Rachel R.
Sudden Death
It
is believed by many that when a person dies suddenly, as in a car accident or
by a gunshot, they may not be aware that they died. This is much like when we
cut ourselves, but don't notice it until we see the injury. This sudden death
can leave the spirit somewhat confused. He or she cannot communicate with us
& perhaps, has lost the concept of time. This leaves them to wander the
area where they died, not fully understanding the predicament they are in.
Often times when these type of spirits are encountered, they are dressed as
they were when they died & seemed confused as to what is going on around
them. These spirits may at times manipulate various objects so they might be
noticed, as if they're reaching out for our help. Unfortunately for them, it is
believed that they are stuck here until somebody from our side makes contact
& informs them that they have died. If they can be convinced they have
died, then they move on to the next life or whatever may lie on the other side.
But contact , as in interaction with the spirit, is most often not made.
People, by nature, fear what they do not understand. So most people will run
away or move, leaving the spirit to dwell an eternity wandering the place of
their death.
Charged Emotions
This
theory suggests that an intense emotional event, such as a murder, suicide or a
tragic loss of a loved one, can cause a person or persons to leave an
electrical imprint on the surrounding area. Our brain is constantly releasing
small electrical discharges. It is believed that during an intense emotional
time, these discharges intensify. They become powerful enough to go beyond the
boundaries of our body & imprint themselves onto objects in the immediate
area. These imprints effectively record the details of the event that has
transpired. It then takes the right person to come into the area &
"playback" the recording.
This
works much like a cassette recorder & tapes. Almost all the sounds in the
world can be recorded onto a substance called ferrous oxide, or more commonly
known as, rust. Sounds are converted into electrical impulses that are placed
on the rust. When we put the tape into a cassette player & hit the
"play" button, we hear what has been recorded. We can listen to this
over & over again, whenever we replay the cassette.
Now
imagine the electrical impulses escaping from the body of some pour soul who
was murdered. This event happens in an old house. The energy spreads out &
imprints itself on rust. Rusty nails, screws, handles, hinges & other metal
objects that show signs of rust. The event is now recorded on the house or
objects. Now imagine years later a new family moves in & begins some
renovations to the old house. Walls are torn down, floor boards are ripped up
or perhaps cabinets are replaced. All these renovations disturb the imprinted
rust, perhaps sending out small vibrations into the air. Vibrations that go
unnoticed by most, but for a few open-minded people, events that transpired
unfold before them. This could happen with voices yelling, begging some unseen
murderer to spare a victim's life, or the horrid event could play out like a
movie before the viewer's eyes.
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This
type of encounter always unfolds in the same way, replaying the exact same
occurrences. In most cases, there is no interaction between the living &
the dead. But, like I mentioned earlier, there are always exceptions. Some
cases have reported the replay ending suddenly, usually if a living person gets
too close or enters the room where the event is replaying. A few even report
that when viewing a apparition, it may notice the viewer & then suddenly
disappear.
Unfinished Business
Another
theory is that a spirit will stay behind after the physical body dies if they
have unfinished business. We can apply this theory to many examples, such as a
soldier standing guard years after his division was wiped out. Perhaps an old
field doctor still trying to save the casualties of war long after peace has
been declared. Perhaps a mother on her way home to care for her children, but
doesn't make it home because of a car accident that took her life.
All
of these things may seem like a very inadequate reason to give up the afterlife
in favor of an eternity of guard duty, but if you think about it, how many
times have you said " I have got to get this done." How many times
have we all said " If I just get this done, I can rest" or " If
I just get here, I'll be done & home soon." I know I've said it a
million times. All we think about is completing that task. So what happens if we
die before getting it done? What if our death is quick & we don't even
realize it, as in the third theory I listed? Many believe we continue trying to
complete that task into the afterlife.
Many
cases, including one I'll write later on this page, document soldiers being
seen at forts, still standing guard or performing their duties as they did many
years ago. Gettysburg is an excellent example of soldiers & field doctors
still carrying out their orders & operations. Many of these stories can be
found in Mark Nesbitt's Ghosts of Gettysburg books. He currently has 4 books
that not only give great stories about the ghosts that dwell in Gettysburg, but
they also provide a detailed history of the events that transpired in these
haunted areas.
A
mother's love may also keep her behind, protecting those she loved & those
who resemble the ones she loved. In many cases, a family living in an old house
have found they live with a helpful spirit. Perhaps picking up objects &
putting them in their proper places or even warning a family of a fire starting
in the late night hours. One case in particular documents a mother who was
awakened in the middle of the night by the figure of an old woman. This figure
had motioned the mother to follow, which she did. The mother followed the
spirit into the children's room where she had found that a small night-lite had
sparked a small flame that was slowly moving up the wall. The mother was able
to snuff out the fire without anyone getting hurt. When she remembered the
figure of the old woman, she found the figure had vanished. Later, it was
discovered that an old woman had died in the house with her three children. The
cause of their deaths had been a fire in the house.
Perhaps
the human will to get things done is strong enough to stop our journey into the
next world. Perhaps these are also imprints that are another exception to the
rule, interacting with those of us who still live on this world.
Crossing Paths
One
theory that I hear every now & then is that we are not seeing ghosts,
instead we live in one of thousands of dimensions that are seconds apart. In
theory, every event in history & the future is taking place all the time,
just in different dimensions. There is no past or future, but rather it is
always the present. Different timelines working at different speeds, right next
to each other. So let's speculate that if the conditions are right ( perhaps a
catastrophic event as in a nuclear blast or a war killing thousands at a time,
caused a ripple in one of these time lines) then maybe two dimensions briefly
cross each other, allowing us to ever so briefly interact with those of the
past.
I've
wondered about this theory after hearing several stories of people literally
walking into the past. One story involved two female employees that took an
unusual elevator ride. The event took place in a dorm in Gettysburg. Instead of
the elevator opening at their intended destination of the first floor, the
elevator doors opened when it reached the basement. What the employees saw was
more then they bargained for. They saw a room full of wounded soldiers & a
doctor performing the horrible amputations that were considered medicine in
those days.
According
to the story, the doctor looked up at the students & beckoned to them,
possibly to help with treating the soldiers. Fortunately, after some hysterical
punching of buttons, the doors again closed & took the students to the
safety of the first floor & their own time.
Now
here is what I have wondered about this theory. Did the doctor actually see
those two ladies in the elevator? If he did see them, did he notice that their
clothing was different or the fact that they were in a small room that was
lighted without candles or a lantern & had doors that opened & close by
themselves. Perhaps he did wonder about this, but only late at night when he
did not have screaming men clutching at him as they died. I've also wondered
what would have happened if the two ladies stepped off the elevator into that
nightmare. Would they have been able to cross the barriers of time, stranding
them in the year 1863.
So
far, this theory seems to only work in one direction for those of us here in
this dimension. All of the cases I have read or heard about , they detail
someone from our time witnessing the past, never crossing paths with future.
Perhaps it takes a major event, such as the battle of Gettysburg, to cause a
ripple large enough to interfere with another time.
Imaginary Friends
One
theory I've developed concerns the imaginary friends of small children. I
believe that spirits are all around us, we just lack the open-mindedness to
acknowledge that they are with us. I feel that this is because we are
"programmed" when we are young by adults, that told us that there are
no such things as ghosts. I was taught that when we died, we went to heaven or
hell. The subject of ghosts never came up. Imaginary friends fall under this
same programming. Parents will teach the children that their "friend"
is not real, & they should stop talking to themselves. This is the kind of
thinking that closes our minds to anything that is not flesh & blood or
solid as a rock.
When
we are born, we know nothing of the concerns & worries of the world. We
have no rules to abide by, thus we have no preconceived notions of what is
supposed to be real & what is supposed to be imaginary. We don't even know
what imagination is. So, I believe that babies & small children are the
best chance a spirit has to communicate with the living. There have been
numerous documented cases where a child or baby has been moved from one spot to
another, or an infant has gained possession of toys that were no where near
them. Many people have watched a baby move it's eyes around, as if following
someone or a child suddenly laughing for no obvious reason. Perhaps that child
is seeing a grandparent who passed on before getting a chance to see their
grandchild.
What
about children who are heard having long conversations with an unseen friend?
Most can be attributed to an overactive imagination, but there are a few cases
in which children have gained information they could not have known. A woman
once wrote me about her son. Apparently the young boy had an imaginary friend.
One day the boy told his mother that her stomach was glowing. His friend said
that his mommy was going to have another baby & the he would have a sister.
The next week the woman found out that she was indeed pregnant. Sometime later,
a baby girl was born. Perhaps imaginary friends are more real then we give them
credit.
Saying Goodbye
Perhaps
the most common, but overlooked paranormal experience is the dream. People have
had dreams where loved ones have come back to guide us through some problem or
to simply say goodbye after they have passed on. Many of you who are reading
this have had these kind of dreams. Many people have awoke from dreams &
changed travel plans or called in sick to work. All because they said they're
mother, grandparent or brother who passed away long ago told them to. It sounds
silly, but it has happened. A mother of a friend of mine cancelled a trip to
Atlantic City one summer.
She
said that her brother came to her in a dream, warning her to stay home. She
did. Later the next day we found out that the bus she was to be on was involved
in an accident. No one died, but a few were hospitalized due to some serious
injuries. Good thing she listened to her brother.
Other
times those who have crossed over simply want to assure & comfort those
they left behind, as in the woman I met at a seminar hosted by the PGHA. She
had been worried about her grandmother who had recently passed on. Granny put
her granddaughter's fears to rest by coming back & telling her that she was
alright.
When
I was young & my own grandparents had passed away, I would often dream of
them when I had been thinking about them. Most of the dream was of times we had
spent together in there house, when they used to visit me at my house or when
my grandfather lived with us for a time after my grandmother passed away. It
all had the characteristics of a normal dream, with everything just happening
without any thought about what I was doing. The only difference was at the end
of the dream when it was time to go. I remember saying that I miss them. My
grandfather would turn & say "Don't you worry about us, we're
fine." This part always seemed the most real. I've always taken that as a
message from them. So I don't worry.
A Familiar Place
A
spirit may choose to dwell in a place that was familiar to them during their
life. Try this for an example. After a hard day at work you get into your car.
Where do you want to go? Some people want to go home. For them this is where
they can sit down & relax for a little while, eat dinner in peace &
watch a little TV before turning in for the night. Perhaps it is a favorite
watering hole for happy hour. Surrounded by good friends, food & drink.
This is where they like to be because they're happy there.
Where
I'm going with this is that after one dies & stays behind, the world often
changes around the spirit. They want to go somewhere they feel comfortable,
where they can feel happy. With the inability to be seen or heard by most, a
place like that is where they may spend much of their time. This could be the
reason behind many restaurant & bar hauntings. Many soldiers may return to
their fort or camp because that was their home before they died & that is
where they feel comfortable. So why not spend most of your time there?
Sometimes, the dispute isn't over what happened...it's why it
happened. More Paranormal
Theories
explanations are:
- Are
not accepted by science or the mainstream public
2. Incorporate elements of the paranormal
They
may be applied to paranormal events, or may suggest a paranormal explanation
for what most people consider to be mundane events or things. There may be
overlap with conspiracy theories, but the two are not synonymous. For example,
it is possible to believe in secret
societies influencing history without involving the paranormal.
However, if the secret society consists of reptilian
aliens, or if they use UFOs
or sorcery, then it is a
paranormal theory.